Five Things I Wish I Would Have Known in High School

Oct 14, 2021

Five Things I Wish I Would Have Known in High School

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WRITTEN BY

Fransia Rodriguez

Fransia Rodriguez is the Records & Relationship Specialist for Breakthrough's Alumni Success program. She graduated in 2021 from Washington and Jefferson College in Pennsylvania. There she was a member of Greek Life and studied abroad in Colombia, India, and Spain. She attributes her merits to the charter public school system.

Have you been a victim of Hollywood’s unrealistic portrayal of the high school experience? I have. Mean Girls, Gossip Girl, 17 again replayed in the back of my mind as I dressed for my first day of high school. Will I fit in? Could I be a varsity athlete? Should I wear pink? It was Wednesday after all…

All these silly thoughts crossed my mind countless times. Truly, all I needed was for someone to tell me I was good enough. Turns out, I was! High school shaped me into the young professional I am today. This is why I’m sharing the Five Things I Wish I Wish I Would Have Known before I started high school.

#1: Build a relationship with your guidance counselor

In high school, we may think we have the world figured out because we are reaching adulthood. Little do we know we still need guidance and mentoring as we develop into young adults. Building relationships with your guidance counselor will allow them to be aware that you are taking your next steps for your future seriously. They will be more open to making you aware of any new programs, internships, or resources available because of your eagerness to learn.

#2: Be yourself

Do not let peer pressure be the reason you are not letting your full potential shine through. Being different is cool! Strive to be yourself! Every individual has unique capabilities, accomplishments, and characteristics that make them special. Be proud of who you are and the growth that’s to come.

#3: Raise your hand more often

Do not be shy to participate in class. If you have questions, others in your class may have the very same questions. Be the leader and raise your hand. It is a great thing to get clarity on an assignments or instructions.

#4: Be kind to those who are shy or different

Step out of your comfort zone and communicate with introverts and extroverts. They are likely looking for a friend like you. Being shy is normal in a big environment like high school.

#5: Take test preparation for SAT/ACT and admissions exams seriously

It is critical to pay attention in class during test preparation to attempt to get the highest score possible.  These test scores affect your college admission decisions, or could influence what type of financial aid package you receive. In addition, low scores could cause a student to begin in remedial courses (below college level) which do not count towards the degree. However, not all schools require SAT/ACT scores. Do your research and inform yourself on the resume boosters that can make you stand out beyond your score!